So I have a very long lasting friendship with this person. Like >10 years of friendship. However during the span of our friendship the person showed many times how much of a hypocrite and ignorant the person can be. I can't believe how she chooses to support someone beating up a queer person instead of letting them be them. Like bitch why are you proud that your little brother beat up a person??? And my god let the guy live. It's hard enough he's living one of the most homophobic countries but for you to advocate for violence instead of love?? Damn. We share a same religion as well and the shit she says to someone who wants to shave their hair (in our religion says we can't appear as the opposite gender?) (Idk idgaf about those) but do things that's clearrrlyy prohibited in our religion is mind boggling. Like how can you preach when you yourself barely hanging on a thread. Like tf. I myself am not pious and i applaud people who are but for you to preach others when you yourself are literally borderline out of it. Like damn. What ticks me off and makes me realize how toxic this person actually is, its when I literally broke down crying and told her about how I was sexually abbused as a child by this person and currently suffer from CPTSD. She chooses to trigger my CPTSD and asked me how is my abuser doing. Like whaaa. Why do you want to trigger my trauma?? I'm suffering enough at home and now whenever i go out with this person, the person just "oh so why is ### parked his car like that?" Whyy??? Not to mention when I hang at the person's house, that person literally puts on a documentary about a serial p#dophil# rapist on the laptop with loudspeaker. And I told he please watch something else, this is triggering me. The mf plays it louder. Recently there's a tend in tiktok about not watching a certain anime cuz it's so bad and no sane person can go through watching it. One day she was like oh you know this trend about an anime movie that's so bad. I'm like yeah but I haven't watched it. Then she's like oh yea I've watched it and it's about a group of p#do gangbang a child and bla bla bla (my head went blank after she mentioned the first part) then she asked me oh it's on YouTube wanna watch it? I was like wtf. No. Then she says oh come on it's on YouTube. I said NO. Wtf is this bitch thinking????Recently I tried staying away from the person and not contacting her for a month. That person got worried and tried contacting and all throughout the month. I did that because the person was being inconsiderate. I had plans with a mutual friend and we agreed and promise to meet at 6pm. 5:50 i arrived at the location, texted the mutual friend, that mutual friend told me that the person just came over and took her away for another activity. I was so pissed. Because A. I made the promise in our shared group chat so the bitch knew I made plans with the mutual. B. How can you be that inconsiderate to just cancel another person's plan. C. My mutual friend here told me when I was literally at the meet up. And D. I literally had to rush my time with someone else because I didn't want to arrive late. That all lead me to cut them off for a month. And honestly my mental health got so much better.That being said we've been friends for so long. Idk how to put up boundaries and idk chop her off? We've been through a lot of shit together but before this I valued the friendship and most of the time I let it pass but now it's hard cuz her beliefs contradicts mine so badly and I'm all about I respect whatever you believe in because it's your life. But all she advocates is violence towards the "wrong ones" and it hurts being near someone who is so hateful.