My sister in law is the kind to not be there for you, avoid calls and all. Then when she needs something shes quick to call or come over. The other day for example she left her kids at home and calls my husband to go for them later that day and watch them. I love the kids dont get me wrong but it bothered me that she left them to be alone with her man & get high just to call us to watch them because they were an hr out of town. Now today comes and we invite them over for a little get together and they “cant come”, this isnt the first time either, we can call them and they’ll just avoid our call, make excuses and lie and lie and lie. I feel fed up because my husband is quick to help them out and they cant be the same back. And when i tell him something he’ll understand but go right back to being that way. He says he does it for the kids but the kids are fine i dont do it to be mean to them but because if our kid was ever in a situation i know i couldnt count on them. I currently just feel so fed up with them and wish he would open his eyes to just ignore them the same way make him realize he goes above and beyond and they will never do the same, he simply wants to spend family time and they can never do that but are quick to come drop off their kids when they want to do something. Something as simple as getting her nails done takes FIVE HOURS and there we are stuck with her kids because shes always doing her.