I am tired of being the therapist friend. All of my friends depend on me to vent and to give them advice. I cant always handle it. I am always glad to help, but they never seem to be considerate of how I’m feeling and it’s killing my own mental health. I wish I could tell them to shut up, but I could never do that. I care about them all. It is so exhausting having to convince your friend not to die and then having to convince the other one why they aren’t total trash. I keep telling them to get actual therapists but they never commit to it. How do they expect me to help with their problems when I already have severe problems of my own. I just wish someone cared about my problems, I wish someone would act like my problems are valid and matter.