I strongly wish that people would stop judging and assigning value to me based on my life situations. Because I'm over 30 and not married I'm considered unworthy and unlovable. Because I'm over 30 and do not have children I'm considered selfish and it's presumed I'll never have children of my own. Because I'm a bit overweight (even though I could totally deadlift you) I'm considered unhealthy and undesirable. WHY? Why are these labels placed on me. Just because I don't wear makeup doesn't mean I don't want to look my best. I am a caring person who loves those around me. I'm content with my place in life right now. Don't try and make me feel bad about it! I'm allowed to be "abnormal". Let me BE ME!