Okay so I’m a 16 year old girl who’s never had a proper boyfriend or relationship. or even a proper crush. But I do know is that I want to get married to a man and have a family and I definitely find male celebrities and fictional characters attractive, so I’m sure I’m straight? A friend of mine keeps asking if I’m bi or a lesbian, and has made multiple comments about it. It keeps making me anxious because it’s like, if she thinks I am, does that mean I actually am and just don’t know it? It’s weird and I feel stupid for even thinking about it so much but I can’t shake her comments off. I’m pretty sure I don’t want a relationship or anything with another girl. Sure, some girls are pretty but it’s not like I’m attracted to them, i don’t know, it’s weird and my brain won’t let it go and makes me super anxious.
Re: somebody told me i radiated gay vibes and now im in doubt of my self
It is normal to find the same gender attractive, it does not mean that you like them in that way. It could be admiration. Just because someone says they get that vibe from does not mean you are. Some people are seen to give evil vibes but are usually the kindest, you should not be bothered by a comment like that because you know yourself better. Do not be swayed by the words of others. Be happy.