It will be too late. You keep closing the gate eventually he will set sail, he is a sailer boy who happened to pause for you. The next time you see his ship your place will be filled LORD child listen he don't need the right one he need a fight one.
The worse feeling ever is playing the game you're playing only to turn around and see he aint there no more becauase a man wants real...a real sail with me, get frail with me type a woman.
Advice from an old hag.