If standing up for myself against others makes me arrogant then so be it!I refuse to allow anyone to control me by using psychological tactics and I refuse to let anyone play me for a sucker anymore. For year's I have been walked into situations and now that I am aware of things I was unaware of, I speak up. I find that when I play nice, I become the butt of everyone's joke. When I don't comply with the direction of what others want for me then ultimately I face the mental and physiological repercussions. My advice to anyone experiencing what I'm currently experiencing on a weekly basis is don't let the repercussions stop u from rebelling against unfair tactics meant to control u. Stand Up against it even if everyone hates u for defending urself!