Dealing with my elderly mother is the worst thing I've ever had to do. I can't do anything by myself anymore because if I go somewhere for more than ten minutes, she thinks I'm never coming back. And truth be told, I don't want to. She looks to me for everything. However, she still thinks she's the adult and I'm the child. Today I made an appointment with an attorney to get her final wishes planned. We've put it off for years. When it was time to go, she threw a fit and accused me of trying to tend her business. Which I am, because I'm the one going to be left holding the bag if she doesn't have a will or a POA when she dies. She's selfish and becoming more so by the day. I'm starting to hate her, because she sucks out every bit of patience and fondness for her.