I actually know a person who is terrified at the thought of loving a woman. It could be because hes more vulnerable than he really lets on too. It could be because his past love left him because she said she was tired of the cheating. Or, it could be the fear that HE is not in control but his heart is. This is a very sad way to live. To spend your days having dangerous casual encounters with multiple people because you ard terrified at the thought of opening yourself up to a wonderful person who is willing to love you. How unfortunate to constantly withdraw so you dont get feelings for a person. Eventually that women that he truly loves will be gone forever. Hell realize it and by then it will be too late. Teenagers chase a person that does not want to be kept, women observe your behavior and move on. There is no more chasing. Women know if a man wants your time, hell make hisself available. Maybe one day hell stop being a grown man scared of Love and live the life he deserves. I hope he doesnt become a gray haired lonely man full of regrets.