Hypocrisy dies a tragic death everytime when a parent decides to blame English schooling for being a bad influence for their pupil.Some basic questions they always tend to forget before starting this blame game is WHO TAKES DECISION FOR A CHILD'S EDUCATION? WHAT HE/SHE SHOULD READ ? WHAT SCHOOL THEY SHOULD GO ? A parent does.Our parents motive is not malicious , all they want is a good future for us and in present with our English knowledge you are treated just like an illiterate person and a staple job is a dream for you. But what is the basis of a good education? Is it limited to only one language, which is neither the native/original nor national language of our nation. It was passed on to us by our colonizers. After 74 years of independence are we still slave in our own country ? A country is considered free when it's people speak their language with pride but in India people take credit saying '' sorry can you please speak English as we don't understand our regional or national language because we studied in an English medium " nothing in the world can be more disgraceful than this.As beautiful quoted by a famous poet (( if people having no love and respect for their mother tongue are counted as knowledgeable, then where would the fools go )).Our dear parents blame english customs and culture for rebellious nature in their children. Well i certainly condemn this practice but i don't deny it completely. Teens do get influenced in foreign cultures and become indiscipline and show bad behavior towards other. But no culture and system is perfect. There a quite a many qualities in foreign society that are appreciable and should be followed, but that doesn't give anyone the right to be disrespectful towards their own culture. I believe all cultures should be equally respected no Matter you believe in it or not .But culture doesn't mean wrong doings should be encouraged. We all should know and understand properly the thin line between faith and credulity. Our parents wants us to follow American and British education for live in an asian society. A Asian society is not bad but an conservative and toxic society is no Matter it is of whichever country. Changes are coming i know and it is inevitable. Society is changing, so is the mindset of people but some believes are due.Some paths are still forbidden. The society tends to fool us , it gives us an pond so that we can never find the ocean. It tries to mislead us with present issues and hide the true nature , the root of problems which is us to seek for a better future. IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU HAVE COME FROM THEN HOW WILL U KNOW WERE ARE YOU GOING. For development we need to know our fault not hide it, a mistake has be confirmed and corrected for positive growth. I being a Indian student studying in an English International school respect all countries and faiths.and treat other individuals with dignity. But I'm not ready to sacrifice my self esteem. Honouring other doesn't mean sacrificing your self. For this I'm tagged as a defiant and unruly child by my mother. With high regards to her i am beyond reasonable and rebellious for not following the fake and plastic society blindly. The society demands 1 Girls should be good at studies , sports , extracurricular, be obedient, well mannered etc.We face it every, when a boy does a mischief most of the time the teacher scolds them but take it for granted that boys are notorious and they do certain things, it's useless to make them understand but when the same thing is repeated by girls they are punished equally like the boys but very specifically humiliated by very teacher.2 society has so much high expectations for a girl and when we're unable to complete these standards we're called incompetent. Age modern times go on girls should equally be able to each and every task as the boy like managing job , driving, etc but are also expected to do the chores of a women and when men do works of women they are highly appreciated by the society as a great feminist and gentleman, ladies man and what so ever but this expected of us and considered a no big deal and not appreciated as much as the guys as this is the double standard modern ideology that they treat men and women equally. I'm not a pseudo feminist but i speak what i face every day . Changes are happening everywhere , everyday but vital faults are required to be marked so that they don't occur and are not repeated. In my school till present day soccer, football, baseball and cricket are only for the boys and khokho is reserved for girls. Till today were given big lectures by our female teachers how to be dressed and how should we behave with the boys . They say long skirt , shorts , leggings, shoes and stockings are required to be worn compulsorily to hide our legs and bare foot because bare foot and legs make us victim to the ideology of being cheap and attention seeeking girls. Where boys are required to wear only 2 to 3 pieces of uniform while we have to wear 5 to 6 pieces of clothing. Were expected to take responsibility, clean and decorate class , etc.Even sexual education is not taught properly in school, sometimes teacher only teaches upto plant and hydra reproduction and skip the rest of the chapter or asks us to read at home as homework and how can i forget being forced to collect home assignments as we're more responsible than the guys but still we receive no special treatment more than the guys .We still have to climb 5th floor to reach our classrooms in period cramps and bag of 2kg.And in coaching classes and tuitions we get scolding for wearing mini skirt , shorts , riped jeans, crop top , cold shoulders, sleeveless or even net lace shirts. No shiny or big jewelry allowed, colored hairs , or open hair ( if not short ) . Only neutral lipbalm is allowed .But boys come with spikes, gels , highlights and expensive watches and ecen tattoos and piercings but they are not said anything. In home were not allowed to leave home after 8pm and have to return home before evening. Were not allowed to leave home by ourselves nor with friends with out any adults but our male counterparts are allowed to roam whereever and when ever they want. Maybe for our security purposes were not allowed to go alone with the driver but boys get bike as gift.When we learn how to drive the only part of our body which were asked to highly protect apart from our head is our face as they consider it the asset of a girl. But why only girl , whyy!! Why not boys. My school is coed only for the sake of the name otherwise it's like a single gender school where we behave like the other gender doesn't even exist. We are not supposed to sit together, walk together or even talk , and for God's sake if we do so our teachers start seeing us suspiciously and ask our parents to take special care of our behaviors and we become FAMOUS ( get bad reputation).In swimming pool also were asked to wear longer swimsuits to reduce extra exposure of our skin , where only the females are present. I sincerely request the adults as well as the youth to thinks about this and take considerate steps to resolve this problem. I HAVE TRIED NOW IT'S YOUR TURN.KINDLY COME FORWARD..Please stop my next article where i will Express more experience and truth about this topic. THANK YOU.