You know what people say, that being the youngest is the awesome position in the family were they spoiled you or gives you freedom or anything you want, well in my position it's kinda the opposite.My name is Psyche (of course fake name) and I'm from somewhere in Asia. Let me tell you about me being the youngest who struggle in life and in my family.I have my both parents, my mom's sis and 3 siblings in our family, two brothers and one sister. Yes, I'm aware sibling's war is normal. Well I think in my part is sort of not.My first brother got a baby when I was in college. When I heard the news about it, I was so nervous cause before I really hate kids, Hate it. But that change when I got the chance to take care of the child. Me and the fam take good care of it, even my mom gave advices to my bro and his ex (long story) and including us (The more u know). But the advices never came to my nephew's parents, they were confident enough how they "want" to take care of their child. It turned out into disaster after the kid hit 5 months and same goes to us. The scenario was like they're giving us the child to take care of it, mom buying the food that he needs, we do the sleeping and bathing thing while my nephew's parents goes out having a good time. It's kinda heartbreaking, even I can't seem to find a job because of what my parents is been doing, they fought enough for us but it didn't stop because of my nephew. I'm all aware too that the child has nothing to do chaos in our family but the parents are. We did talk or confront my brother about it and his still in a delusional state and still dealing his own life rather than his child and same goes to the mother. We didn't talk thru her because she is kinda in denial that everything that she does is not true for her. She is very crucial, she really wanted like expensive items only for her, nothing else but her and everyday goes hang out with friends and partying (like I don't get the logic).You may think that we can take care of the child like thru discipline, u thought wrong. It's very disturbing about how they discipline the child and what they feeding on him. The attention of my nephew was very hard to get on him, very distracted and always on tv, phone and toys. The diet was I can't tell if his parents are even human, the mom can't cook real food for her child, my bro was feeding him instant noodles every meal and they always giving him junk food. I don't know. Everytime we discipline the child in the right way, the child keeps giving us excuses that always starts with "No" and continues with "Mommy/Daddy says this and that...". Like I can't even. I did my best being as his Aunt including my sis or every relatives in our house. But I can't understand why can't they be a good parent for their child? And a little bit of consideration in what or how we gave them guidance of taking good care the child. To be honest, I have several times to end my life because of what I'm facing or Leave the house without saying goodbye. The depression is boiling up and never get to see the light.I hope someone can knock off of my brother and his ex about being a parent. That's my story so far and I hope you guys be safe during this pandemic.-Psyche