I think a shift in the tide has come now that some people are getting older and their brains are developing more but 5 years ago the newspeak trans bullshit taking over gay and lesbian spaces was insane. If you want to trans out like Elliot page, fine, its your body but dont try to force everyone else to change with you to make you more comfortable. I call a spade a spade. If you look like a woman, I'm saying "she". You're not getting me fired over that and the fact thats what happened in some isolated cases fuels the fire of anti gay bigotry because some jackass decided to group us all under one umbrella term "lgbt" Having bottom surgery as a young adult is a fucking choice...being gay is not. I knew I was gay at 7 years old. I had no way of course correcting that.