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Transphobic? Sis I hope not um

About one-two months ago (idk) I posted on here that I was struggling with my gender because I didn't know what I was truly. I've been thinking about it every now and then and I remembered one thing. My dad might be transphobic, but I don't know. He once got into the conversation with some old hag who was transphobic. Well, my dad said that when he was in the military and where he lived at the time, people that he knew decided to transition. He said that these men became women- but only 'half way' he said this over a year ago and I still think about it. He stated that all they'd do is wear feminine clothing and grow their hair out, change their names, pronouns, etc. But he said that they never did anything about their parts, so he was confused and never saw them as women. My mom said something similar too- two months ago I was talking to her about all the sexualities and genders. She then said something along the lines of "Blah blah blah, the stuff that makes them a boy- a penis -blah blah" and I just sat there, thinking. I'm pretty sure that these are signs of transphobia and what not. But I can never ask what their opinions are! Why? Well, one time when I asked them if they supported the LGBTQIA+ community, they said "Of course I do... why? Are you gay?" AND THEY SAY THAT ALL THE TIME- even one time I had to explain to my mom what being genderfluid meant since I had a friend who was genderfluid and my mom was confused. She then asked me, "You seem to know a lot about this... are you secretly genderfluid too?" and ISTF JJKDSAKGKASDKG EVERY SINGLE TIME