Not sure how to phrase this but here goes. Last Sunday was my 21st birthday and I'm still a virgin. Everytime a girl is remotely attracted, I get into my own head and overthink everything to the point that I do nothing and they lose interest. That being said, I've been seriously considering hiring an escort to get rid of the first time jitters and get this serial frustration out of my head. Idk if I came here to get talked out of it or into it, but there it is. Any advice appreciated.