My mother used to constantly tell me about how I ate too much or too often. I had a very bad relationship with food because of her. I was overweight.
I lost 25kgs, she still tells me I eat too much or constantly, and some days that makes me feel worse than others. She doesn't see all the food I leave behind, and I know she says it because she's jealous
She can't lose weight, because she eats the wrong things.
I can. I know how much I eat, I don't count calories but I can estimate still.