So almost 3 years ago I got injured at work and was out on paid medical leave. While I was away a bunch of my coworkers would message me and ask how I was doing and when I was going to return to work. I always responded back to them because I thought it was sweet that I had caring coworkers. Well, one day one of my male coworkers messaged me to see when I was going back and how everything was going(because I had been off for over a year now and had surgery), and my fiancée saw it. My fiancée asked me who this guy was that was messaging me and I told him that he was just a coworker checking in on my return and seeing how surgery went. My fiancée told me that the guy was not interested in that shit and that he no longer wanted me to speak with him and to delete him. I , loving my fiancée more than my coworker, decided to go ahead and do this so long as it was going both ways meaning if I couldn’t respond to male coworkers just checking in on me or guys at all then the same had to go for him and females. Well, fast forward 1 year later and my husband is telling me about how one of his female coworkers( that he no longer was working with btw.) was messaging him and checking on him and saying how sorry she was that all temps were let go and other shit going on at work. Now before this nigga could finish where his damn conversation was going I stopped him and said he was being a hypocrite. He asked me how so. So I told His ass that he felt it was ok for females to check in on him and message his ass outside of work wit non work related shit but I wasn’t supposed to be doing that shit. He then breathed hella heavy and said “foreal babe?” I looked him dead in his eyes and said “yea foreal cuz if you gone hold me to that shit then you better be following the same damn policy.” He said “so you want me to delete her?” I said “yes.” And he told me he was gonna do it. Now a couple days go by and I have this gut feeling that he didn’t delete the bitch or stop messaging her so I went into his back up phone and looked at his fb messages and soon as it opened new messages from this bitch(the same one he was supposed to delete) just magically erase themselves. So I decided to do what he couldn’t and block the bitch 🤷🏾♀️. I didn’t say anything to him about it and I just kept on like everything was fine because the way I saw it things were cuz I deleted and blocked the problem. Later in the day he’s sitting at his laptop trying to figure out some new business venture he wants to go on and he gets a text message. I ask him(like we always do one another.) “who’s texting you?” And he responds with “my mom.” So I ask him how she’s doing and he respond with a confused look on his face “how’s who doing?” And I said “your mom.” He then tells me that he’s not talking to his mom and so I asked him why did he just tell me he was and he tells me that he never said anything to me(like I’m sitting there conversing with my damn self or some shit.). I then go back over the conversation we just had and he tells me “oh no I said ‘no um’ not my mom.” I then ask him why he was lying to me because he clearly said before that he didn’t say anything and now he’s saying he did say something but it wasn’t what I heard. I just cut the damn tv off and told him I was going to lay down because he was lying and I wasn’t about to deal with that shit. He goes outside and smokes a bit and comes back in and goes back to the computer and decides to text me asking what was that all about that just happened. I told him he lied and I wasn’t gonna deal with that shit. He tells me that he didn’t but if that’s what I feel then ok. So I responded with ok! A few minutes later and he decides that he’s going to the store and wants to come give me a kiss. I turned away from him and said I wasn’t kissing him right now and he backs up saying woooowww. Then proceeds to saying that he didn’t lie again blah blah blah but he was sorry blah blah blah. I told him he was lying and he says that I can check the phone records and I said yes they may have your texts and phone calls but they won’t have your snaps or instagram or Facebook messages on there. He then goes on a rant to himself about how we just had a baby together and why would he be doing all this for another female instead of the one he has at home that he loves and shit. I’m laying in the bed just saying Ok, yup and mmhmm while I’m thinking ‘nigga I ain’t stupid, I know the fucking game and you gon talk to who ever you want if you believe you can get away with that shit.’ He talks himself all the way out the front door and I’m just laying here typing this shit out on here so I can have release and not go off on this nigga too hard in front of our new born