ANGREZI MEDIUM movie dkhi thi 2 din pehle aur uske kuch din pehle HELICOPTER EELA dkhi thi.... Ek me modern father dikhaye hai aur ek me modern mother, but sort of pain in ass are children only. Well it's a lockdown period na so movies dkhte hai sab milke, full family and it's fun to us. Par aaj ek problem hogyi and the first question that came to my mind is yaar Are we the only selfish creatures or what???
Aaj papa got to know about Anu's instagram account nd the way he reacted was soo weird, ha for sure was predictable par........ Ek movie hai gujarati me title PAPPA TAMNE NAI SAMJHAY, title dkhke i felt ki shyd pehli baar samjh aaye that what we feel being child, par again it was all about parents. As i said we always are the pain in ass par kya kabhi kisine humare pain ko samjhne ki koshish bhi ki hai kya, na kisi movie director ne shyd aur na hi kisi writer ne that what is it to be a child..... Or a mediocre child 🙂 I sooo wish ki yaar main ya mere jaise bache log extremes pe hote. I mean ya toh totally rebel ki we will do what we want to or else totally agyakaari that we will always do what our parents want to do..... Par yeh shyd sirf mere jaise log feeling samjh paayenge, in dono ke bich wale.... A mediocre.... Jo puri zindagi isi feeling me frustrated nikaal dete hai ki I want to live my life on my own terms but I don't want to hurt my parents ever. Bht diplomatic category hai na yeh 😜 I know aisi feeling jahan hota hai ki dumm ghutt raha hai aur guilt bhi horaha hai. Par guys humare parents humse bhi bade diplomatic hote hai😂😂 ek side cool banne ki koshish karte hue par apni rigidity chode bina..... Isme bhi i too feel ki yaar extremes pe rehna shyd better hai, ki either be rigid conserved or be supercool. Because honestly this mediocre feeling sucks.
Chahe zamana modern ho ya purana, it's always been said ki parents love is the only selfless love in the world, Is it? Aur agar hai toh why child's love is not selfless too, bacha toh wahi sikhta hai na jo useh sikhaya jaata hai ya jo woh dkhta hai, toh kyu nai hai selfless love humara, kyu humara pyaar selfish hota hai. Aur agar humara selfish hai with a logic that we use our parents' emotions to make them do what we want, toh kya parents nai krte waisa?? Ha mana chote hote hai tab tak rote hue ya naraaz hoke ya bhaav khake we get what we want par same wahi cycle start hoti hai once we enter into our teenage jahan parents emotional hoke ya typical dialogue kehke ki " tum humari situation samjhoge when you'll be parents" they make us do what they want to...... Toh yeh kaisa balance hai, kaisa logic hai, ki sirf parents love is selfless.
We all three are growing now, humare apne kuch ideas hai humari life jeene ke par we can't kyuki we are the mediocre ones 😅 aur isliye we differ from our parents ideology in many aspects, aur bus shyd isliye aajkal aisi aisi baatein sunne miljaati hai ki baar baar yahin sawaal aata hai ki Are we that selfish?? Ki sirf mummy papa hi hume selfless pyaar krte hai, and can't they be selfish ever?? Kyu woh hamesha shyd anjaane me hi kuch aisa keh jaate hai ki I personally feel I don't wanna be a parent ever, ki kal ko shyd main inhi ke jaisi banu, expectations karu apne bacho se nd then jab mere bache saamne argue kare toh apne ego pe lelu aur victim card nd selfless love ki murati sirf main hi banu. I don't wanna be that.
Pata nai kitni complains hai shyd mujhe ya hum teeno ko ya shyd har bache ko apne parents se, jo shyd mostly untold hi reh jaati hai, par all we wanna tell to my parents nd shyd har woh mediocre parent ko that We do love you, as per us selflessly we love you, chahe aap humare liye badi badi kurbaaniya physically ya emotionally ua mentally ya socially, deke kuch karoge ya nai karoge, we would shyd complain just like you guys, out of expectations, but we won't stop loving you or respecting you. We love you, we respect you not out of some bond or duty, but because we just do, Jo hai woh hai, no opacity just transparency. And we will always love nd respect you, chahe complains double hi kyu na hojaaye, apna kaam nikalvane ke liye dikhava nai karte pyaar ka hum, pyaar hota hai tabhi jatate hai.
Isme shyd our generation should be selfish ki yaar ek lauti quality toh aap log kabhi kabhi appreciate kar lete ho, ki hum dikhava nai krte. Toh atleast yeh quality toh sambhaalne ki puri koshish karenge ki dikhave ki feelings toh nai jatayenge.
So, we don't pretend it papa mummy.