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We will never have kids

My partner and I have been told that it will be next to impossible for us to have kids. He had a vasectomy 3 years before we met, we had it reversed about 2 years after it was done but it wasn't as successful as it could have been. I went through a miscarriage with a previous partner and since then a baby is all I have ever wanted. He already has 2 kids so I don't feel like he really understands what this means to me. I'm not sure what our next option is as we just can't afford anymore fertility treatment to make this happen and it's something i really want

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Re: We will never have kids

Hey, I don't know what it's like to not be able to have kids because I'm not that age , yet, but I understand some of the emotional pain of miscarriage because I've lost two maybe three siblings, I wasn't old enough to understand the first one, but the most recent one was last month and it might of been twins and it caused so much pain, but another thing I can tell you is that just because it's not likely doesn't mean it's not going to happen. My youngest sister was born after my mom was told that it was likely she wasn't going to have more kids.