Have you ever felt bad about helping someone out?Even though they were glad you helped?I helped someone, I should be feeling good about it right? Instead I have this strange sense of "you are so dumb for helping" in my head.I helped. Things got done. I should feel good about myself!But for some reason I don't. It just feels like I gave them a fish instead of teaching them how to fish.In a river that I don't really understand well.Any advice I would be giving might not be useful.So why do I feel bad about it?I was happy to help. They were glad I helped. Things got done.But something keeps nagging me and I don't understand why.Have you ever had anything like that happen to you?