Im tired of being told I don’t do anything. I just got a new job, have been cleaning my household, have been trying to take care of bills and get help with our car and things that are important, and every time my S.O gets upset I’m put to blame because “I’m not doing anything” Or “I’m not doing enough” when all I do is try and provide and create a better relationship and environment for us. I was barely congratulated on getting my job after being unemployed for a month. I’ve taken care of any mess I’ve seen for the past 3 weeks just to try and prove, hey, I’m doing shit, shit that you aren’t doing while you bitch about how you’re the only one who tries. I’ve learned to cook, I take care of myself better, I try to engage in things that you’re interested in, I give you space and time with your friends... and at the end of the day, it’s my fault still. And whenever I try to say something to stick up for myself it’s always “well you’re always right and I’m always wrong” bullshit... like.. we’re adults... life sucks, but take responsibility for your own... I’m tired of being made to feel like everything I do isn’t good enough.. because it is.. and the harder that I try, the less I begin to care... it’s unfair.. why can’t you just be supportive and understanding... you ask for me to change, but don’t put in the same effort to make change for yourself..