K so my husband is not as much as a clean freak like me, sometimes I get some of his bad habits but he doesn’t like to bathe...it’s frustrating to make him shower but he honestly likes how he smells which is hard for me to understand and accept at times, like can anyone explain to me why.i try to accommodate with hints by like cleaning the shower or making sure towels are there, could he just be stressed? Depressed? He’s stoic by nature, always busy and is 25 years of age, he neglects oral hygiene and wakes up early to phone calls which is really toxic in my opinion to start the day off with anxiety and no plan or care for cleaning up or like routine? He likes to make a mess (by like I mean he’s careless in how he does it) what should I do? Not care anymore and try to save and live somewhere else? I been married to him for a year and I get sad at times of how much cleaning and work I do on the daily and don’t know if kids or marriage life is for me?