I’m gonna go ahead and guess you haven’t yet lived half of your life trying to “make shit work”Its damn hard to be positive after that.I want to ask ya: can you tell me a positive experience you’ve had with a man who held power over you?I sure can’t. To this day I’m not good enough for my dad or my husband.loltry the whole Christian thing. Gorsh I just don’t have a good experience to relate to. im frightened that my story is very much like the majority of girls and not a minority out of the blue. I’m afraid more girls will be unhappy like me.