I'm a mother of an almost 2 years old. She's my heart and soul. I love her to the moon and back. But ever since she was born, my marriage is going downhill. Arguments with my partner becomes a weekly monthly event. It's painful and exhausting. I'm not sure if separating is the best solution. I think I still love him very much. But there's this constant anger and negativity in the atmosphere between us. Most of the time I feel like it's over something petty. The most heartbreaking part is whenever there's an argument, he would just lock himself in a room. So basically I don't see him unless the baby is around. I'm not sure what's the problem and how we end up here. I couldn't fix it even if I want to.