Have you ever asked yourself 'did I became a good friend?'. In life friends are seasonal. You have a friend for good times, bad times and normal days of life. Now , Let's rephrase the question did you ever became a good person? But no matter how you became a good person there are always people who brings out the bad in you they always see the bad in every good things you have done. And if you have done something good for 10 people surely out of 10 only 2 will give back for the goods that you have done. So what's the real question did i became the person they wanted me to be? People keep on insisting that we should be like this like that. We see our life as a replica of other people's life or We tent to live for other people's feelings without realizing what we truly feel. We keep on saying it's alright even tho it's not because we rely on other people's emotions towards us. It's not about the real question It's about how we live our life, it's about our choices that can make or break us in the process. We should choose to be happy, A happiness without burdening other people. Leave everything to God because he will do the rest. Life isn't about having a lot friends because when days are dark they are few, it's about having true friend and a loving family. Life isn't about how you became a good person towards others its about respecting, minding our own business and being less of a toxic we are, Life doesn't depends on other people's perspective. If you're hurt then you're hurt no sugar coating. If they had the courage to hurt you then they must have the will to understand you as to what you are feeling and vice versa. Choose to live a beautiful and meaningful life. Peter 5:7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. James 1:2-3 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. Proverbs 10:28 The hope of the righteous will be gladness, but the expectation of the wicked will perish.