Make sure both you sober & want it. Let other people know plan. So have witnesses. Women. If raped tell friends. Go immediately to hospital for rape kit. You do not have to tell them or cops his name yet if you don’t want to. But we need the evidence later if you decide to go after him To young men. This is why no sex with drunk or drug woman & never with an unconscious one. Women sober up & remember have strict family; religion, boyfriend & lie to protect rep. Women. Have sex at your place or a friends. Only goto their place if you are ready for sex with them that night. Cause once you go there it’s hard to prove you didn’t want them. Let’s say we in college. You come tell me was raped. I will help you. But not beat him up for you. Ill help collect proof. Or take to hospital. Or whatever. But if I beat him up it’s going to be hard to get him arrested. The proof will be needed. Hair. Swelling. Need to see defensive wounds. Is obvious if know what look for. Hospitals are best. But if you won’t then friends need take pics of cuts, bruises, swelling. This way you have proof & witnesses. But if went to hospital like you should then they are a neutral third party. A lawyer can’t say they are lying. They may say we your friends made it up. MOST IMPORTANT. don’t shower or wash vagina or inner thigh. Evidence is there. Blood. Semen. Hair. Young men. Sex is fun if both want it. But don’t just drop her after. Go out for at least a week after. That way there’s proof she was happy with you. Then break it off. Young ladies. Men will lie & say they love you. If that’s true they will wait. I waited till marriage for my wife. But don’t have sex with a stud like me who runs around with everybody. Tells you he’s not ready to marry. Then suddenly think I’m going to marry you because we had sex. I told you it was just fun. I didn’t want to marry. What did you not understand? It always drove me crazy if someone then fell in love. It takes two people to be in love. You don’t know me. In my case I used sex with women who wanted it to replace bad memories of me being raped. See. Would you think that giant stud had been raped? Well. I was once a boy. Do you get it? We are both humans. Just because you have sex with someone & they then don’t fall in love with you, that doesn’t make them a bad person. I always laughed when I tried to hang with women after a hookup & theyd blow me off. Say I already got what I wanted out of you. You don’t have to put in some time. See I was a status F. You moved up after that. I honestly had sex with some nice young ladies who weren’t as attractive as I’d usually date just to help them get some self esteem. I’d say I found you attractive enough. So quit saying your ugly. But I’m not marrying you so go find a boyfriend. I’d even agree to lie so she could get a rep. It’s the craziest thing. Somehow; having sex with me makes her more desirable to other males. Men. Not every woman looks like Scarlett Johansen. If they do; they probably want to have sex with a man who looks like me. You get warped by the media. They show you all these endless beautiful women. Your brain is programmed to reproduce. We all look for balanced faces. Those babies have best chance to be healthy in past. It’s survival instinct. Thing is we have modern medicine. Most babies can live. You don’t have to chase the hotties. My wife was not the 6 ft beauties I often chased after. I liked tall strong women. Id sometimes date others if they worked for me. I knew I was the prize. So you had to work to get me. My wife was short & cute. But in my eyes she was everything. Because I loved her. She got fat after our baby died. I still thought she was the most beautiful woman in the world. Now she seems to be dying. She’s frail. She pushed me away & divorced me. I still love her with all my heart. She’s still the most beautiful woman in the world. I will never allow another woman to touch me. Sorry. That’s it for me. I’m sad.